Sunday, February 14, 2010

The Military Wife...

Military Wife
Lots of moving...
Moving far from home...
Moving two cars, three kids and one dog...all riding with HER of course.
Moving sofas to basements because they won't go in THIS house;
Moving curtains that won't fit;
Moving jobs and certifications and professional development hours.
Moving away from friends;
Moving toward new friends;
Moving her most important luggage: her trunk full of memories.
Often waiting...
Waiting for housing.
Waiting for orders.
Waiting for deployments.
Waiting for phone calls.
Waiting for reunions.
Waiting for the new curtains to arrive.
Waiting for him to come home, For dinner...AGAIN!
They call her 'Military Dependent', but she knows better: She is fiercely In-Dependent.
She can balance a check book;
Handle the yard work;
Fix a noisy toilet;
Bury the family pet...
She is intimately familiar with drywall anchors and toggle bolts.
She can file the taxes;
Sell a house;
Buy a car;
Or set up a move...
.....all with ONE Power of Attorney.
She welcomes neighbors that don't welcome her.
She reinvents her career with every PCS;
Locates a house in the desert,
The Arctic,
Or the deep south.
And learns to call them all 'home'.
She MAKES them all home.
Military Wives are somewhat hasty...
They leap into:
Career alternatives,
And friendships.
They don't have 15 years to get to know people.
Their roots are short but flexible.
They plant annuals for themselves and perennials for those who come after them.
Military Wives quickly learn to value each other:
They connect over coffee,
Rely on the spouse network,
Accept offers of friendship and favors.
Record addresses in pencil...
Military Wives have a common bond:
The Military Wife has a husband unlike other husbands;
his commitment is unique.
He doesn't have a 'JOB'
He has a 'MISSION' that he can't just decide to quit...
He's on-call for his country 24/7.
But for her, he's the most unreliable guy in town!
His language is foreign
And so, a Military Wife is a translator for her family and his.
She is the long- distance link to keep them informed;
the glue that holds them together.
A Military Wife has her moments:
She wants to wring his neck;
Dye his uniform pink;
Refuse to move to Siberia;
But she pulls herself together.
Give her a few days,
A travel brochure,
A long hot bath,
A pledge to the flag,
A wedding picture,
And she goes.
She packs.
She moves.
She follows.
What for?
How come?
You may think it is because she has lost her mind.
But actually it is because she has lost her heart.
It was stolen from her by a man,
Who puts duty first,
Who longs to deploy,
Who salutes the flag,
And whose boots in the doorway remind her that as long as he is her Military Husband,
She will remain his military wife.
And would have it no other way.
--Author Unknown


Kelly Mahany said...

As an ex-military wife (12 years of Navy time) this brought tears to my eyes!! What a very sweet and truthful tribute!

God Bless you Christi... it won't be long now!! Hugs!!

Ravengirl said...

Very touching!

dclouser said...

My hat is SO off to you! God bless you and your amazing husband for your sacrifice and service to us all.

Jessica Diedrich said...

I am emotional today anyway as evidenced by my post, LOL... Where to begin? My cousin just returned to his wife and two boys from a 1 yr tour in Iraq and I'm still emotional and SO GRATEFUL about that too....I can't imagine doing it all w/ him being away. My DH is away only 2-3 days a week and sometimes I feel like it's neverending. It's people like you who remind me what a LONG TIME means, and all to keep us safe and our Country preserved. I don't say THANK YOU to those who serve enough, and I definitely don't say it enough to the WIVES. YOu are an amazing person, Christi. HUGS. xoxo

Tiff said...

Thank you for posting this, as a fellow Army wife, my heart goes out to you! Here's to being a strong woman!

Amber Hight said...

Oh Christi, it really is the toughest job on earth...those of us in uniform can't function without solid support from home! Even though DH and I are both active duty, I recognize your unique viewpoint and stand amazed by all military spouses:) You are an amazing woman, Ben is so lucky to have you:) HUGS sweetie, won't be long till he's home!

Amy said...

Awww..that made me cry! He'll be home soon!! Miss you!!

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